I Am a Writer
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Comment from Jay Squires
Thank you for writing this essay, Ingrid (and thanks for slipping in your name so I won't have to resort to "friend", not knowing whether man or woman) -- but, mainly for the essay.
It's needed.
I'm single again, after 48 years of marriage, largely because of the exclusivity of the writer's passion.
You nailed it!
Just one teensie weensie thing below:
but the resistance of change. [resistance to change. Don't ask me why. Besides I might be wrong. "resistence to" sounds right to me.]
Great job!
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Thank you for writing this essay, Ingrid (and thanks for slipping in your name so I won't have to resort to "friend", not knowing whether man or woman) -- but, mainly for the essay.
It's needed.
I'm single again, after 48 years of marriage, largely because of the exclusivity of the writer's passion.
You nailed it!
Just one teensie weensie thing below:
but the resistance of change. [resistance to change. Don't ask me why. Besides I might be wrong. "resistence to" sounds right to me.]
Great job!
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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It works either way. One is defensive. the other compliant--take your pick. Good luck, but blame the spit on communication, not writing.
Comment from Jumbo J
Hi Ingrid,
there was a saying back in the seventies..."only a surfer knows the feeling" well, that saying applies right down the line when it comes to the writer... because only a writer knows the feeling or even understands the urge to create from the inner sanctum. Seriously though, families and friends that care about you that won't go out of their way to support you in something that obviously means a great deal to you? I want to know what that's about? What ever happened to loyalty? I don't care if they don't or can't even read... show some interest in someone else's endeavours... yes even if they don't know the 'feeling'... and by the way, you know I'm so wrapped about your story being published... our relationship is one of an online friend, but I think it goes deeper than just online, for I feel a certain sense of pride in knowing you and the success you are generating with your writing... how do I get on to 'Page and Spine?' how do I get to read what my good buddy has put out there for all to read? know if it was possible there would be roses covering the inside of your A-Frame right to the point, but the guy's I hired to snatch the goods from your neigbourhood gardens informed me I'd have to buy them, as there's non in bloom anywhere insight... and you what a cheapskate I am... sorry. You know what I think of your writing and I know so many on site feel the same way... 'SO' I'll raise a glass tonight in your honor to celebrate on an achievement well deserved... love you Ingrid... good on ya mate!
With our thoughts we create,
passion in every form,
James xx
*************************'STARS'*************************!
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Hi Ingrid,
there was a saying back in the seventies..."only a surfer knows the feeling" well, that saying applies right down the line when it comes to the writer... because only a writer knows the feeling or even understands the urge to create from the inner sanctum. Seriously though, families and friends that care about you that won't go out of their way to support you in something that obviously means a great deal to you? I want to know what that's about? What ever happened to loyalty? I don't care if they don't or can't even read... show some interest in someone else's endeavours... yes even if they don't know the 'feeling'... and by the way, you know I'm so wrapped about your story being published... our relationship is one of an online friend, but I think it goes deeper than just online, for I feel a certain sense of pride in knowing you and the success you are generating with your writing... how do I get on to 'Page and Spine?' how do I get to read what my good buddy has put out there for all to read? know if it was possible there would be roses covering the inside of your A-Frame right to the point, but the guy's I hired to snatch the goods from your neigbourhood gardens informed me I'd have to buy them, as there's non in bloom anywhere insight... and you what a cheapskate I am... sorry. You know what I think of your writing and I know so many on site feel the same way... 'SO' I'll raise a glass tonight in your honor to celebrate on an achievement well deserved... love you Ingrid... good on ya mate!
With our thoughts we create,
passion in every form,
James xx
*************************'STARS'*************************!
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Consider this a love letter. whether I win or lose in the writing game.
Dear James;
You might be thousands of miles away, but somehow I know that if I were ever transported to OZ, you and Jade would both coddle and love me. For that reassurance alone, I thank you. ingrid
Comment from JavaJunkie
This is a fantastic essay! I love the flow of ideas, but the ideas themselves are what make this so very poignant and spot on. You may live alone now, but it's obvious that you haven't always in your adult life...you have too much insight I to my life!
One suggestion would be to use a semicolon between these two sentences because they seem very closely related:
This phrase is so recognizable that is has become a cliche. Referring to a person's sudden adoration of a new pet, Rover is an unwelcome guest in the bedroom.
our nearest and dearest consider it competition. ....oh my goodness this is so true! My kids would spend hours playing games and watching shows on their iPads if I would let them, and they give me such crap about writing an being on fanstory.
It's interesting what you have to say about about family's responses...I know family and friends that would respond that way, so I don't share with them! I'm a coward:) I'm lucky though, because my husband, best friend and my mom are all very supportive.
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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This is a fantastic essay! I love the flow of ideas, but the ideas themselves are what make this so very poignant and spot on. You may live alone now, but it's obvious that you haven't always in your adult life...you have too much insight I to my life!
One suggestion would be to use a semicolon between these two sentences because they seem very closely related:
This phrase is so recognizable that is has become a cliche. Referring to a person's sudden adoration of a new pet, Rover is an unwelcome guest in the bedroom.
our nearest and dearest consider it competition. ....oh my goodness this is so true! My kids would spend hours playing games and watching shows on their iPads if I would let them, and they give me such crap about writing an being on fanstory.
It's interesting what you have to say about about family's responses...I know family and friends that would respond that way, so I don't share with them! I'm a coward:) I'm lucky though, because my husband, best friend and my mom are all very supportive.
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Lucky you.
Luck you and thanks for reading.
Comment from nancy_e_davis
My family love my poetry and my book, even though I have not been published, well I have been in a couple of small monthly publications. They are supportive and very interested. I am lucky. If my husband were alive he would be jealous. He would want my attention when he was home. LOL Writing is addictive for me. I probably will never stop. LOL Good job. Nancy
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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My family love my poetry and my book, even though I have not been published, well I have been in a couple of small monthly publications. They are supportive and very interested. I am lucky. If my husband were alive he would be jealous. He would want my attention when he was home. LOL Writing is addictive for me. I probably will never stop. LOL Good job. Nancy
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Don't you dare, The whispers you hear are all encouragement to be the best of you--don't let yourself down.
Comment from Chrisfiore
Hi S.E.
I think that just about sums it up. We write and pour everything into it, but some of the people we feel closest to regard it simply as our "hobby" or "pass time". I'm glad you have found an outlet for your creativity and I hope it takes you as far as you want to go. ;) Chrisfiore
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Hi S.E.
I think that just about sums it up. We write and pour everything into it, but some of the people we feel closest to regard it simply as our "hobby" or "pass time". I'm glad you have found an outlet for your creativity and I hope it takes you as far as you want to go. ;) Chrisfiore
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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I have already determined my heading and I absolutely refuse to fail.
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very cool. ;)
Comment from padumachitta
Hi. Yep. I am so glad you wrote this. I am at this crossroads. I can no longer face being socially acceptable, at the expense of my writing. It just takes too much time away. I am an introvert. I live by writing. I have had to be a social introvert, a sort of fake extrovert for too long. People care. But, don't know.
I am lucky my partner understands my need to write...the other people, I am a nice person who dabbles in words...say what...
so thank you , this piece resonated with me...
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Hi. Yep. I am so glad you wrote this. I am at this crossroads. I can no longer face being socially acceptable, at the expense of my writing. It just takes too much time away. I am an introvert. I live by writing. I have had to be a social introvert, a sort of fake extrovert for too long. People care. But, don't know.
I am lucky my partner understands my need to write...the other people, I am a nice person who dabbles in words...say what...
so thank you , this piece resonated with me...
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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I love the phrase,' social extrovert' and understand the implications. I am certain you will roar.
Don't compromise in riting Hear me?
Comment from Petriesan
They're thrown into the same dirty pool as lecherous men who surf the net for porn.
uh, are they not equivalent?
huh.
we write because we HAVE to. No other explanation. It is a bonus if someone actually pays for the stuff and reads it. . .
really good piece
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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They're thrown into the same dirty pool as lecherous men who surf the net for porn.
uh, are they not equivalent?
huh.
we write because we HAVE to. No other explanation. It is a bonus if someone actually pays for the stuff and reads it. . .
really good piece
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Thanks for the stars, the accolade and understanding.
Comment from Nosha17
I liked your analysis of what a writer faces in way of resistance to her desire to persevere with her writing. I am in total agreement, it is only those long hours of trial and error to get our thoughts put onto paper (or on the computer)that help us to be fulfilled and succeed. You made good use of language in the narrative and descriptions and it read really well. Enjoyable read. Faye
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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I liked your analysis of what a writer faces in way of resistance to her desire to persevere with her writing. I am in total agreement, it is only those long hours of trial and error to get our thoughts put onto paper (or on the computer)that help us to be fulfilled and succeed. You made good use of language in the narrative and descriptions and it read really well. Enjoyable read. Faye
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Thanks for reading and reviewing.
Comment from comanalbert
Congrats on your publishing! May JK Rowling wonder how in just a year your name has beaten her sales beyond resonable belief...
Writing is a need vital like breathing and reading, so they have to assimilate, comply or get a rash because of it, we don't care. I started half a year ago and now I feel whole, I see the beauty in life and I feel I have a purpose...Otherways, why would God plant all these ideas in my head. Why would people say I have a writing ability, a way with words when English is my second language for barely a year?
So you are right, we are blessed to leave a legacy and nothing can stop us!
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Congrats on your publishing! May JK Rowling wonder how in just a year your name has beaten her sales beyond resonable belief...
Writing is a need vital like breathing and reading, so they have to assimilate, comply or get a rash because of it, we don't care. I started half a year ago and now I feel whole, I see the beauty in life and I feel I have a purpose...Otherways, why would God plant all these ideas in my head. Why would people say I have a writing ability, a way with words when English is my second language for barely a year?
So you are right, we are blessed to leave a legacy and nothing can stop us!
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Nothing will stop you. Not distain, nor disagreements with your words. How dare anyone dispute what you're feeling.
Comment from Spitfire
Boy, do I hear you! My husband is the only family member who cares about my book. Both children critiqued it unmercifully! But my daughter -in-law loved it as did my friends. Your observations on responding in a different way --yes, I know I take on attitude of my characters sometimes.
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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Boy, do I hear you! My husband is the only family member who cares about my book. Both children critiqued it unmercifully! But my daughter -in-law loved it as did my friends. Your observations on responding in a different way --yes, I know I take on attitude of my characters sometimes.
Comment Written 01-May-2014
reply by the author on 01-May-2014
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You're a great writer and although you are blessed with some family approval, you don't need it, you've morphed into your own critic.