Remembering Yesterday
Viewing comments for Chapter 154 "Things Start to Level Out a Bit"A widow's journey into her relationship with her
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Comment from Ric Myworld
Like most of us, it sounds like your children were in and out like a revolving door. I was lucky, mine finally got their acts together and they've been gone for 20 plus years. LOL. Thanks for sharing.
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Like most of us, it sounds like your children were in and out like a revolving door. I was lucky, mine finally got their acts together and they've been gone for 20 plus years. LOL. Thanks for sharing.
Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you, Ric. I really appreciate the six-star review. Yes it was a revolving door for quite a while. This chapter was the end of it for us because we'd had enough. It wasn't that they try a few more times. LOL
Beth
Comment from Spitfire
You really are a professional writer even if you only got paid in copies. I used to read Guideposts all the time.
Fascinating about your dad and the dog bonding instantly. Sounds as if they both have the same temperament.
I like that you continue to bring the outside world in e.g. the Simpson trial and McVeigh.
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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You really are a professional writer even if you only got paid in copies. I used to read Guideposts all the time.
Fascinating about your dad and the dog bonding instantly. Sounds as if they both have the same temperament.
I like that you continue to bring the outside world in e.g. the Simpson trial and McVeigh.
Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you for the review and comments. You may be on to something I'd not thought about. Perhaps the dog understood and related to Dad because of the similar temperaments. He never acted gentle around anyone but Dad.
Beth
Comment from K.L. Rockquemore
I enjoyed this touching post.
This is well written and well presented.
The topic is relatable to some but the message is strong one that I hope your readers will receive.
I applaud you for wanting to show your kids the relationship you had beside being parents.
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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I enjoyed this touching post.
This is well written and well presented.
The topic is relatable to some but the message is strong one that I hope your readers will receive.
I applaud you for wanting to show your kids the relationship you had beside being parents.
Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you so much for an excellent review. I really appreciate reading your words.
Beth
Comment from Jannypan (Jan)
You did a great job not only with your story, Beth, but
with your kind and loving care for your Dad. I know
how hard it is to be a caregiver. However, I didn't have
as many other responsibilities as you did at the time. You
gave readers great details about what was happening in
your daily life and the implications. I like how you included
several of the main events in the news at the time to help
anchor your words in time. No matter what you did for your
father, it was a catch 22 situation with someone always saying
you should've done this or that or. . . .(been there and heard
all of those)
Respectfully, Jan
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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You did a great job not only with your story, Beth, but
with your kind and loving care for your Dad. I know
how hard it is to be a caregiver. However, I didn't have
as many other responsibilities as you did at the time. You
gave readers great details about what was happening in
your daily life and the implications. I like how you included
several of the main events in the news at the time to help
anchor your words in time. No matter what you did for your
father, it was a catch 22 situation with someone always saying
you should've done this or that or. . . .(been there and heard
all of those)
Respectfully, Jan
Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you, Jan. You understand what it is like to be a caretaker. I don't regret doing it. My parents had been caretakers and it was my turn. There are always those who feel things should have been done differently. I had friends telling me to put him into a nursing home, because I had my own life to live. I couldn't have done that and felt good about it.
Beth
Comment from Katherine M. (k-11)
The continuation of your family memoir is extremely interesting to me. I took early retirement to be able to spend more time caring for my parents, and daddy is immobile. The main difference is that they remained in their own home, so they have less adjustments to make.
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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The continuation of your family memoir is extremely interesting to me. I took early retirement to be able to spend more time caring for my parents, and daddy is immobile. The main difference is that they remained in their own home, so they have less adjustments to make.
Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you, Katherine. It would have easier on Dad if he could have stayed in his own home or if I could have gone to take care of both of them earlier, my mom might have lived longer. I'm sure your parents appreciate your sacrifice.
Beth
Comment from Judy Lawless
This chapter is very refreshing after that chaotic last chapter, Beth. It's nice your father had help getting through his grief and wonderful that the dog took to him as a friend. Maybe that was what he was meant to do. He knew he was needed. Thanks for sharing.
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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This chapter is very refreshing after that chaotic last chapter, Beth. It's nice your father had help getting through his grief and wonderful that the dog took to him as a friend. Maybe that was what he was meant to do. He knew he was needed. Thanks for sharing.
Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you, Judy. I'm was relieved that things started to get easier. Yes, maybe there was a reason for that dog existence. He and my father got along well.
Beth.
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You're most welcome, Beth.
Comment from royowen
I can see how your dad staying with you was a fair inconvenience for you, but knows you are honouring your parents, and that he became eventually used to the food, and what a bonus, your normally anti social dog became his best Buddy, I aren't animals funny? Beautifully written Beth, blessings Roy
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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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I can see how your dad staying with you was a fair inconvenience for you, but knows you are honouring your parents, and that he became eventually used to the food, and what a bonus, your normally anti social dog became his best Buddy, I aren't animals funny? Beautifully written Beth, blessings Roy
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Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you Roy, I appreciate the review. My Mom and Dad took in his dad and aunt went they needed care. I'm glad we were able to do that for him. If Evan's mom and dad had needed care we would have done that as well.
Beth
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Yes, you?re a good daughter
Comment from barbara.wilkey
I swear adult children keep us almost as busy as they did when they were little. I enjoyed reading your memoir again. Please keep these posts coming. I know your children and grandchildren will enjoy reading.
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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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I swear adult children keep us almost as busy as they did when they were little. I enjoyed reading your memoir again. Please keep these posts coming. I know your children and grandchildren will enjoy reading.
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Comment Written 23-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 24-Apr-2022
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Thank you Barbara. I didn't realized when I had children it would be a lifetime thing. I'm glad they are still close, but I'm still involved in all their dramas although I'm not shelling out as much money as I once did. Their heartbreaks still affect me.
Beth
