A Particular Friendship
Viewing comments for Chapter 2 "The Reveal"We meet Lizzy who has just come out of the convent
14 total reviews
Comment from LateBloomer
Hi Liz, my grammar school convent closed because there were too few nuns/sisters. Instead, about 5 of them lived in an apartment nearby. At this point in time, the grammar school had closed. I don't know whatever happened to those who were sent to apartment-style living. Did they stay, or eventually, leave the convent? I had seen my share of nuns leaving the convent while I was in school. That was around the 1970's. In my humble opinion, the life of a Sister was too hard, and they took the vow of poverty, while our priests did not--if my memory is correct. Growing up in the heart of NYC, our priests were given many perks, and for that, I am happy. I only wished that the nuns received a portion of those perks.
The joy of owning your first home is a joy of comfort and security.
Of note:
Early in the convent, during the first three years of strict training, I could only associate with those in my set, determined by the year they entered the Novitiate.
(Unreal. Like any of these women were a bad influence.)
Also:
I discovered after leaving, my other wonderful friends had children with many family obligations. They didn't have a lot of time to spend playing like I needed.
(Sadly, many women who do not marry find themselves in this
situation--lonely nights and not much friendship outside of the
workplace.)
And:
She was accepting of everyone. I'm glad I have adapted that way of being with others. It has stood by me my entire lifetime.
(Children learn what they see.)
A most interesting story and life. I realize that I'm reading this story in reverse. Well done. Margaret ~ LateBloomer
p.s. what part of the country did you reside?
reply by the author on 12-Jan-2024
  |
Hi Liz, my grammar school convent closed because there were too few nuns/sisters. Instead, about 5 of them lived in an apartment nearby. At this point in time, the grammar school had closed. I don't know whatever happened to those who were sent to apartment-style living. Did they stay, or eventually, leave the convent? I had seen my share of nuns leaving the convent while I was in school. That was around the 1970's. In my humble opinion, the life of a Sister was too hard, and they took the vow of poverty, while our priests did not--if my memory is correct. Growing up in the heart of NYC, our priests were given many perks, and for that, I am happy. I only wished that the nuns received a portion of those perks.
The joy of owning your first home is a joy of comfort and security.
Of note:
Early in the convent, during the first three years of strict training, I could only associate with those in my set, determined by the year they entered the Novitiate.
(Unreal. Like any of these women were a bad influence.)
Also:
I discovered after leaving, my other wonderful friends had children with many family obligations. They didn't have a lot of time to spend playing like I needed.
(Sadly, many women who do not marry find themselves in this
situation--lonely nights and not much friendship outside of the
workplace.)
And:
She was accepting of everyone. I'm glad I have adapted that way of being with others. It has stood by me my entire lifetime.
(Children learn what they see.)
A most interesting story and life. I realize that I'm reading this story in reverse. Well done. Margaret ~ LateBloomer
p.s. what part of the country did you reside?
Comment Written 12-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 12-Jan-2024
-
There is no sequence, it is written in theme which may go in sequential presentation. I lived in VT, half way down, around Killington.
Comment from Karen Cherry Threadgill
Well, it seems that your father did not help your mother overcome her feelings of being inadequate.
A good setup for the kid being part of a religious herd. My personality is such that I couldn't be told what to do by folks that I deem less than astute.
I worked in sales mostly or, for a business I ran. I have a hard time with orders. I can tell you are shocked! hahahaha Good writing. Karen
reply by the author on 21-Sep-2023
|
Well, it seems that your father did not help your mother overcome her feelings of being inadequate.
A good setup for the kid being part of a religious herd. My personality is such that I couldn't be told what to do by folks that I deem less than astute.
I worked in sales mostly or, for a business I ran. I have a hard time with orders. I can tell you are shocked! hahahaha Good writing. Karen
Comment Written 21-Sep-2023
reply by the author on 21-Sep-2023
-
Thank you for your loyalty. I'd better get going on some more chapters of your. I actually think & have been told, I chose everything in this lifetime to have a reason for being rebellious as a result I following orders and doing what I was told in some past lives. Clearly not in this lifetime.
-
Yes, I believe we come back and come back until we solve the problems put before us. Our innards, our souls survive every life cycle, and reappear as anew. Karen
-
So true
-
Boy except for the whole Catholic sister part we are twins. Karen
-
Lol
smirk
-
Lol
smirk
Comment from davisr (Rhonda)
In this chapter, we get a closer look at Lizzy, through the eyes of her narrator, who is a bit like, I guess, her Muse. It's a fun style and allows a different look at her/you.
In it we see a loneliness growing that cannot be filled even though being around a lot of other people.
We see, also, a snippet of what it was like to be young Lizzy and how she felt as a child... how she felt as the child of affluency, yet with very little self-esteem.
Hugs,
Rhonda
reply by the author on 17-Aug-2023
|
In this chapter, we get a closer look at Lizzy, through the eyes of her narrator, who is a bit like, I guess, her Muse. It's a fun style and allows a different look at her/you.
In it we see a loneliness growing that cannot be filled even though being around a lot of other people.
We see, also, a snippet of what it was like to be young Lizzy and how she felt as a child... how she felt as the child of affluency, yet with very little self-esteem.
Hugs,
Rhonda
Comment Written 17-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 17-Aug-2023
-
Thank you for your precious review I really appreciate it. The next chapter which was very painful to write is up next.
-
I'll be watching for it. I'm a bit behind on things as I'm getting used to the pace of the classroom.
-
Take your time
Comment from Debbie D'Arcy
This is a fine, well expressed story about Lizzy, her poignant background in which she lacked confidence and any real self-esteem before she entered the convent. Hardly ready or suitable to devote herself so exclusively to such a stringent lifestyle for over 20 years, the reader is inexorably drawn to her as she adapts to life outside.This was a very interesting and eye-opening account of her experiences. Thanks for sharing, Liz. Debbie
reply by the author on 17-Aug-2023
|
This is a fine, well expressed story about Lizzy, her poignant background in which she lacked confidence and any real self-esteem before she entered the convent. Hardly ready or suitable to devote herself so exclusively to such a stringent lifestyle for over 20 years, the reader is inexorably drawn to her as she adapts to life outside.This was a very interesting and eye-opening account of her experiences. Thanks for sharing, Liz. Debbie
Comment Written 17-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 17-Aug-2023
-
Thank you for your involved, supportive review.
The next chapter is coming soon.
Comment from Iza Deleanu
Very beautiful chapter and and Lizzy is a pro. She managed to adjust briliantly tp her life ourside the covenant. Thank you for sharing and good luck with your writings.
reply by the author on 15-Aug-2023
|
Very beautiful chapter and and Lizzy is a pro. She managed to adjust briliantly tp her life ourside the covenant. Thank you for sharing and good luck with your writings.
Comment Written 15-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 15-Aug-2023
-
Thank you for your supportive review. I appreciate it.
Comment from aryr
Ahhaaa, The Tor invaded my mind, this was great, Liz. There was a time that the adventures of Lizzy were justified. It was wonderful, that Lizzy was complete. Very well done and greatly enjoyed. Blessings n Hugs!!!
reply by the author on 15-Aug-2023
|
Ahhaaa, The Tor invaded my mind, this was great, Liz. There was a time that the adventures of Lizzy were justified. It was wonderful, that Lizzy was complete. Very well done and greatly enjoyed. Blessings n Hugs!!!
Comment Written 15-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 15-Aug-2023
-
Thank you for your caring and supportive review. That's funny you say how the Tor connected with you too
-
You are so welcome, Liz. Yes, The Tor came to mind.
-
***Snicker***
Wait til you read the next chapter. You will question what century you're reading about.
-
Wow! I can't wait for the next chapter!
-
It was sad all over again. Because I began this 20+ years ago, I've reviewed this particular incident, so I've gotten angry and sad repeatedly. I am slowly healing.
-
It takes time, Liz. Grief takes time. Today, yesterday takes time. Be patient.
-
***Sigh***
Comment from BethShelby
This is an interesting way to write an autobiography. I think I would like to read along since I basically write about my own life, hoping it will help my children see me the way I see myself. I find autobiographies facinating.
Beth
reply by the author on 15-Aug-2023
|
This is an interesting way to write an autobiography. I think I would like to read along since I basically write about my own life, hoping it will help my children see me the way I see myself. I find autobiographies facinating.
Beth
Comment Written 15-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 15-Aug-2023
-
Welcome. I'm glad to have your involved review.
Comment from patcelaw
I enjoyed listening to your story very much. I cannot imagine what it must've been like for you in the convent for you to have not good relationships with people who were there. I wish you the very best in all of your writing. May God bless you and keep you safe. Patricia.
reply by the author on 14-Aug-2023
|
I enjoyed listening to your story very much. I cannot imagine what it must've been like for you in the convent for you to have not good relationships with people who were there. I wish you the very best in all of your writing. May God bless you and keep you safe. Patricia.
Comment Written 14-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 14-Aug-2023
-
Thank you for your compassionate review. I appreciate it.
Comment from eliz100
This is an excellent chapter. It answers many of the questions I had following the prologue. I believe the self-esteem of the mother is reflected in her children. In the second paragraph, "Apt living and managing money with (were) required then the next phrase feels cumbersome. Hae a blessed day.
reply by the author on 13-Aug-2023
|
This is an excellent chapter. It answers many of the questions I had following the prologue. I believe the self-esteem of the mother is reflected in her children. In the second paragraph, "Apt living and managing money with (were) required then the next phrase feels cumbersome. Hae a blessed day.
Comment Written 13-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 13-Aug-2023
-
Thank you for your perceptive review. I will check out your observations.
Comment from lancellot
This is a good chapter. I would recommend condensing some of the lines and paragraphs if you can.
notes:
All who have known Lizzy before,
-All who knew Lizzy before,
Sisters lived together observing the same rules was going to [be] a radically new way of living.
-add
These courageous women were forming and redefining how community was lived (out).
-remove or change to outside.
reply by the author on 13-Aug-2023
|
This is a good chapter. I would recommend condensing some of the lines and paragraphs if you can.
notes:
All who have known Lizzy before,
-All who knew Lizzy before,
Sisters lived together observing the same rules was going to [be] a radically new way of living.
-add
These courageous women were forming and redefining how community was lived (out).
-remove or change to outside.
Comment Written 13-Aug-2023
reply by the author on 13-Aug-2023
-
Thank you for your involved review.
