Advice to New Fanstorians
Viewing comments for Chapter 8 "Dumb Stuff I Did"Tips and advice for the new members
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Comment from Liz O'Neill
Great guidance, it does swallow us up: "This site can suck you in. I love it here but take breaks away from it." oh yes, I have the emotional scars. Sometimes I've gone on the critic's site & they've written nothing. I know it's about them, there are too many support people for me to take 3's & 4's to heart: "We pour our heart and soul into these perfect creations, and then someone in clodhoppers stomps all over it! How dare they!" I could add a lot more, but this is enough. Good work.
reply by the author on 21-Jan-2024
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Great guidance, it does swallow us up: "This site can suck you in. I love it here but take breaks away from it." oh yes, I have the emotional scars. Sometimes I've gone on the critic's site & they've written nothing. I know it's about them, there are too many support people for me to take 3's & 4's to heart: "We pour our heart and soul into these perfect creations, and then someone in clodhoppers stomps all over it! How dare they!" I could add a lot more, but this is enough. Good work.
Comment Written 21-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 21-Jan-2024
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Thanks for the read and kind musings. These stories and poems are our babies. people need to take care with their editing. :-) Karen
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So true. They should be gentle with them
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We are simpatico in a lot of areas. It is nice to have clear thinking friends who appreciate my weird humor. :-) Karen
Comment from LJbutterfly
I thoroughly enjoyed reading your tips for newbies. When I joined in 2020, I experienced some of the same things. However, I read for my first six months without posting and discovered five stars was the expected rating.
You have given humorous, yet wise advice on a variety of topics. All newbies should be required to read the book, and this post in particular.
reply by the author on 17-Jan-2024
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I thoroughly enjoyed reading your tips for newbies. When I joined in 2020, I experienced some of the same things. However, I read for my first six months without posting and discovered five stars was the expected rating.
You have given humorous, yet wise advice on a variety of topics. All newbies should be required to read the book, and this post in particular.
Comment Written 17-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 17-Jan-2024
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You are so very sweet. I appreciate the kind words. :-) Karen
Comment from Bill Schott
Wow! You dumb! No, just kidding. I put that initial comment there before I read the piece, so I can be forgiven.
Your analyses of the new Fanstorian's experiences are important, but will never be read or utilized by the newbies. It is experience here that separates fact from opinion.
reply by the author on 17-Jan-2024
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Wow! You dumb! No, just kidding. I put that initial comment there before I read the piece, so I can be forgiven.
Your analyses of the new Fanstorian's experiences are important, but will never be read or utilized by the newbies. It is experience here that separates fact from opinion.
Comment Written 17-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 17-Jan-2024
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Hey, I can occasionally be a lackwit like anyone else. Even I, as amazing as it may seem I am, need help from time to time. I hope some might save themselves the trouble and read. one can hope. :-) Karen
Comment from Julie Helms
This is very insightful, informative and done with great humor!
I kind of liked this line, and maybe even related to it a bit:
"A lot of us are old as dirt and know stuff"
:-)
I still use my four stars. You have to have something that indicates a work needs some help. But there is definitely five star peer pressure here.
Thanks for sharing this very informative piece! Julie
reply by the author on 17-Jan-2024
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This is very insightful, informative and done with great humor!
I kind of liked this line, and maybe even related to it a bit:
"A lot of us are old as dirt and know stuff"
:-)
I still use my four stars. You have to have something that indicates a work needs some help. But there is definitely five star peer pressure here.
Thanks for sharing this very informative piece! Julie
Comment Written 17-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 17-Jan-2024
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What a great icon you have! I have dimples too. I appreciate the read. I hope some newer folks will get some use out of the info. :-) Karen
Comment from BethShelby
This is a really cute chapter with a lot of good folksy advice. I think new writers will enjoy and learn from it. It shows you unique style and sparkling personality.
reply by the author on 16-Jan-2024
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This is a really cute chapter with a lot of good folksy advice. I think new writers will enjoy and learn from it. It shows you unique style and sparkling personality.
Comment Written 16-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 16-Jan-2024
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I am blushing. Thanks for the read and nice comments. Karen
Comment from davisr (Rhonda)
I absolutely love your advice to Newbies. I can relate to all of them, and I think your advice is sage and humorous. I laughed at a lot of your comments, which is a good way to look at things.
You are so right about wearing yourself out trying to review everything. I try to find what I like and go with that. I always wondered why people would bother to review something they clearly don't like. But, there's no accounting for other folk.
Hugs,
Rhonda
reply by the author on 16-Jan-2024
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I absolutely love your advice to Newbies. I can relate to all of them, and I think your advice is sage and humorous. I laughed at a lot of your comments, which is a good way to look at things.
You are so right about wearing yourself out trying to review everything. I try to find what I like and go with that. I always wondered why people would bother to review something they clearly don't like. But, there's no accounting for other folk.
Hugs,
Rhonda
Comment Written 15-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 16-Jan-2024
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Hold on to your hat, I remembered some I forgot, I wrote another one! Be prepared. Thanks for the read. Karen
Comment from Gypsy Blue Rose
I agree with your advice. I learned a lot in the past 8 years. At the beginning I gave a lot of four stars because I thought it was good, 4 is good, people got really mad at me. Now I gave 5 to most people unless it's bad.
At the beginning i got some really mean reviews but i don't anymore.
I only participate on cash price contest. I wone 4 last year, 400 dollars. The prompt contest are a waste of time.
I made a lot of friends and my writing has gotten better.
I do post twice a day because I enjoy writing and decorating my poems. But I get what you mean. It's easy to get addicted. At the beginning I wrote and review from the morning to at night... it was crazy but if I wanted money to promote my work I had to review a lot. Now I promote one post every other day because I have a life, as you say.
Well done, you are learning fast.
reply by the author on 16-Jan-2024
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I agree with your advice. I learned a lot in the past 8 years. At the beginning I gave a lot of four stars because I thought it was good, 4 is good, people got really mad at me. Now I gave 5 to most people unless it's bad.
At the beginning i got some really mean reviews but i don't anymore.
I only participate on cash price contest. I wone 4 last year, 400 dollars. The prompt contest are a waste of time.
I made a lot of friends and my writing has gotten better.
I do post twice a day because I enjoy writing and decorating my poems. But I get what you mean. It's easy to get addicted. At the beginning I wrote and review from the morning to at night... it was crazy but if I wanted money to promote my work I had to review a lot. Now I promote one post every other day because I have a life, as you say.
Well done, you are learning fast.
Comment Written 15-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 16-Jan-2024
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I watch what you do, how you constantly change up what you do. So, I have been branching out.
seem to have a flair for spiritual poetry right now, who knew? Thanks for the read and encouragement. Karen
Comment from Daylily
This surely rates a six because I agree with everything said, it is well written, the font is super, and I thoroughly enjoyed the time spent to read it.
Sound advice is a treasure and you have filled the chest ten times. Bravo!
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2024
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This surely rates a six because I agree with everything said, it is well written, the font is super, and I thoroughly enjoyed the time spent to read it.
Sound advice is a treasure and you have filled the chest ten times. Bravo!
Comment Written 15-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2024
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Thank you so much. You are as sweet as peach pie. Karen
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If only.... :0)
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You are just the sweetest thing ever. I am writing another one, I thought of a few more things I had trouble with when I started. Beware! Karen
Comment from prettybluebirds
I agree with this writing. If I decide to walk away for a while, which is what I'm doing right now, I do it. I will come back when I'm in the mood to do so. I enjoy the site and the people; I just need to do other things at times.
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2024
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I agree with this writing. If I decide to walk away for a while, which is what I'm doing right now, I do it. I will come back when I'm in the mood to do so. I enjoy the site and the people; I just need to do other things at times.
Comment Written 15-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2024
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Well. We live and learn, don't we? It is easy to get sucked in. Thanks for the read. Karen
Comment from Ric Myworld
Yes, there are so many things that we learn every day from this site. Some good, some not-so-good. But as long as we are learning at all, it's better than wishing we had. Thanks for sharing.
reply by the author on 14-Jan-2024
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Yes, there are so many things that we learn every day from this site. Some good, some not-so-good. But as long as we are learning at all, it's better than wishing we had. Thanks for sharing.
Comment Written 14-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 14-Jan-2024
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Thanks pal. How about the picture? Karen
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The post is great. The picture is hilarious.
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I came across that picture it is so hilarious, It could be old chaw, or jimpson weed too!
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I came across that picture it is so hilarious, It could be old chaw, or jimpson weed too!
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Thank you, I thought a lot more people would mention it, but no one did! Karen
