Remembering Yesterday
Viewing comments for Chapter 169 "The Beginning of Another Year"A widow's journey into her relationship with her
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Comment from Judy Lawless
That was another very busy month, Beth! You were truly a member of the sandwich generation, looking after your elderly father and your children. I admire your stamina. Great read.
reply by the author on 12-Oct-2022
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That was another very busy month, Beth! You were truly a member of the sandwich generation, looking after your elderly father and your children. I admire your stamina. Great read.
Comment Written 12-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 12-Oct-2022
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Thank you, Judy. I appreciate the review and comments.
Beth
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You?re most welcome, Beth.
Comment from Mary Kay Bonfante
This is a great continuation of the ongoing Shelby family history. So many things are going on with your family! I almost feel as though I know them. I know what it's like to care for an aging parent, and I think you did a wonderful job, even with taking breaks! You really needed to.
Here are some suggestions:
and whatever else effected our daily lives.
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and whatever else affected our daily lives.
I found reasons to get out of the house when I could ...
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I found reasons to get out of the house when I could, ...
I'm not sure if it was her race or because she was female ...
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I'm not sure if it was her race or because she was female, ...
The last time we'd been there was in June ...
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The last time we'd been there was in June, ...
She was in her 90's and in a nursing home.
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She was in her 90s and in a nursing home. [Surprisingly, no apostrophe there. If you're uncomfortable with that, you can say "nineties."]
I thought they would be getting a low mileage used model, ...
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I thought they would be getting a low-mileage used model,
...and pay us back if we would loan them more.
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...and pay us back, if we would loan them more.
...having recently moved from Florida, with no plans for Thanksgiving ...
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...having recently moved from Florida, with no plans for Thanksgiving, ...
...and now that it was over it was on to preparations for Christmas.
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...and now that it was over, it was on to preparations for Christmas.
and I felt compelled to not let my family down.
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and I felt compelled not to let my family down. [not 100% sure on this one, but I think it sounds better]
and plowed into the downtown riverfront injuring 140 people.
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and plowed into the downtown riverfront, injuring 140 people.
...and is home taking care of disabled father.
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and is home taking care of her disabled father.
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What a horrific accident on the Mississippi River! I don't remember hearing about it, but I don't consistently watch the news.
My favorite line: "I'm sure the cat was duly impressed." Very cute and clever.
Are you related to Senator Richard Shelby, of Alabama? I get emails from Intercessors for America (IFA) suggesting various government leaders and legislators who we can pray for, and he was among them.
I lost track of which state you were living in, but I think I remember that you lived in various Southern states.
reply by the author on 11-Oct-2022
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This is a great continuation of the ongoing Shelby family history. So many things are going on with your family! I almost feel as though I know them. I know what it's like to care for an aging parent, and I think you did a wonderful job, even with taking breaks! You really needed to.
Here are some suggestions:
and whatever else effected our daily lives.
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and whatever else affected our daily lives.
I found reasons to get out of the house when I could ...
=>
I found reasons to get out of the house when I could, ...
I'm not sure if it was her race or because she was female ...
=>
I'm not sure if it was her race or because she was female, ...
The last time we'd been there was in June ...
=>
The last time we'd been there was in June, ...
She was in her 90's and in a nursing home.
=>
She was in her 90s and in a nursing home. [Surprisingly, no apostrophe there. If you're uncomfortable with that, you can say "nineties."]
I thought they would be getting a low mileage used model, ...
=>
I thought they would be getting a low-mileage used model,
...and pay us back if we would loan them more.
=>
...and pay us back, if we would loan them more.
...having recently moved from Florida, with no plans for Thanksgiving ...
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...having recently moved from Florida, with no plans for Thanksgiving, ...
...and now that it was over it was on to preparations for Christmas.
=>
...and now that it was over, it was on to preparations for Christmas.
and I felt compelled to not let my family down.
=>
and I felt compelled not to let my family down. [not 100% sure on this one, but I think it sounds better]
and plowed into the downtown riverfront injuring 140 people.
=>
and plowed into the downtown riverfront, injuring 140 people.
...and is home taking care of disabled father.
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and is home taking care of her disabled father.
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What a horrific accident on the Mississippi River! I don't remember hearing about it, but I don't consistently watch the news.
My favorite line: "I'm sure the cat was duly impressed." Very cute and clever.
Are you related to Senator Richard Shelby, of Alabama? I get emails from Intercessors for America (IFA) suggesting various government leaders and legislators who we can pray for, and he was among them.
I lost track of which state you were living in, but I think I remember that you lived in various Southern states.
Comment Written 11-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 11-Oct-2022
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Thank you so much Mary Kay. You are amazing to look at my writing so carefully and help me improve it. I'm delighted with the stars. The accident on the Mississippi caught our attention because we lived in the New Orleans area for 17 years. We were born in Mississippi and are now in Chattanooga, Tennessee. You've not read my genealogy book called, Pioneers of my People. One of the chapters was about genealogy of the Shelby family. Senator Shelby is related to our Shelby line, but we've never met him personally.
Beth
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You're very welcome, Beth. I hope to catch at least a few chapters of your genealogy book, when I can. Thanks for explaining about where you live (and lived previously), and about Senator Shelby! God bless you, my friend. Love, Mary Kay xoxo
Comment from LJbutterfly
I haven't read previous episodes of the Selby family saga, but think this is a fabulous idea. I'm sure writing this has brought more memories to mind than you had when you began writing. This story shows that 'life happens' to all of us. We do what we can based on circumstances, and keep pushing forward. Thank you for sharing. This story is inspirational.
reply by the author on 10-Oct-2022
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I haven't read previous episodes of the Selby family saga, but think this is a fabulous idea. I'm sure writing this has brought more memories to mind than you had when you began writing. This story shows that 'life happens' to all of us. We do what we can based on circumstances, and keep pushing forward. Thank you for sharing. This story is inspirational.
Comment Written 10-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 10-Oct-2022
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Thank you so much for you great review. Yes writing brings back a lot of memories. My life is much like everyone's life. We deal with whatever we need when it happens. I'm glad you like reading my story.
Beth
Comment from Jannypan (Jan)
Your story thus far was well organized, Beth. I enjoyed reading it.
You gave readers great details about everyone's lives. It seemed
like money, or lack of it, was a constant issue with the kids. Don
was being used by that doctor. I've never heard of going door to
door to drum up business. Also, the fact he wasn't paid for helping
patients was wrong. I know what you meant about setting a high
precedent from past holiday celebrations that made you feel you
had to do it every year. I didn't know about the boat accident.
Thanks for sharing, Jan
reply by the author on 10-Oct-2022
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Your story thus far was well organized, Beth. I enjoyed reading it.
You gave readers great details about everyone's lives. It seemed
like money, or lack of it, was a constant issue with the kids. Don
was being used by that doctor. I've never heard of going door to
door to drum up business. Also, the fact he wasn't paid for helping
patients was wrong. I know what you meant about setting a high
precedent from past holiday celebrations that made you feel you
had to do it every year. I didn't know about the boat accident.
Thanks for sharing, Jan
Comment Written 09-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 10-Oct-2022
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Thank you Jan. This is a great review. Yes Don was being used by the doctor. He made a bad decision by going with him. He had to pay high rent, but wasn't paid when he adjusted the doctors patients. It didn't end well.
Beth
Comment from Ric Myworld
It's hard to imagine just how similar peoples experiences are until we start reading about others lives. All of us thinking we are unique, when in reality, we are all about the same in how we live and the shared responsibilities. Thanks for sharing another great chapter!
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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It's hard to imagine just how similar peoples experiences are until we start reading about others lives. All of us thinking we are unique, when in reality, we are all about the same in how we live and the shared responsibilities. Thanks for sharing another great chapter!
Comment Written 09-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Thank you Ric. I think the problems I face may be a bit different form yours, but we all have problems. When people tell me that my life is filled with so many bad things, I don't see it that way. I think my life is not so different from everyone else's life. We all face daily challenges. It isn't horrible. It's just life.
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Yes, Beth, you are so right. As I've often said, speaking of the cycle of life: when times are bad, they will most times get better; but, when times are the best they can be, then you better get ready, they will change.
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This is so true.
Comment from Ulla
Hi Beth, no, as you say at the end of this wonderful new installment, it is as well we can't see into the future. So things are moving along on an almost even keel. Now what will the new year bring? I certainly hope that Don will start to earn some money. I'm looking forward to what's next. Ulla:)))
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Hi Beth, no, as you say at the end of this wonderful new installment, it is as well we can't see into the future. So things are moving along on an almost even keel. Now what will the new year bring? I certainly hope that Don will start to earn some money. I'm looking forward to what's next. Ulla:)))
Comment Written 09-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Thank you Ulla for a great review and comments. The year will bring some changes. We'll see. I appreciate you sticking with me.
Beth
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Oh, I won't leave it. I enjoy it far too much. :))
Comment from Teri7
This is another very interesting post you have penned. You used very good descriptive words. I always enjoy reading your work. That had to be hard on you taking care of your dad at times. Thanks for sharing. love and blessings, teri
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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This is another very interesting post you have penned. You used very good descriptive words. I always enjoy reading your work. That had to be hard on you taking care of your dad at times. Thanks for sharing. love and blessings, teri
Comment Written 08-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Thank you Teri. I'm glad that I was able to spend time with Dad during his last years. I appreciate your review and comment.
Beth
Comment from Spitfire
I hear about your dad having a hard time adjusting to black doctors and dentists. I did too! Connie is a real success story. I agree it's unwise to spend a fortune on a brand new car. Seems Don is always needing more money. The things we do for our kids. Yeap, my cat is impressed that I'm eighty. I love that you are in a financial situation that you can help your children when they need it.
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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I hear about your dad having a hard time adjusting to black doctors and dentists. I did too! Connie is a real success story. I agree it's unwise to spend a fortune on a brand new car. Seems Don is always needing more money. The things we do for our kids. Yeap, my cat is impressed that I'm eighty. I love that you are in a financial situation that you can help your children when they need it.
Comment Written 08-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Thanks for a great review. We all adjust to whatever life throws at us. What else can you do? I'm sure you explained to your cat how impressive it is to get to be as old as we are without having nine lives to count on. LOL
Beth
Comment from Frank Malley
Although it is written in the style of a Christmas summary, this piece manages to find enough events and personalities to keep it interesting. The problems people face within the story are so representative of American lives that I was hooked.
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Although it is written in the style of a Christmas summary, this piece manages to find enough events and personalities to keep it interesting. The problems people face within the story are so representative of American lives that I was hooked.
Comment Written 08-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Thank you Frank. I appreciate the review. I am pleased that you found this chapter interesting. It's just a slice of my life that likely isn't so different for most people's livves.
Beth
Comment from lyenochka
Great wrap up of another eventful year!
The line that resonated most with me in this post was " there were times I wondered if this would be my life from now on." We never know how long a particularly stressful season will last and wonder if it's going to be months or years and if we would be able to last! You did beautifully with patience for your father and your children.
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reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Great wrap up of another eventful year!
The line that resonated most with me in this post was " there were times I wondered if this would be my life from now on." We never know how long a particularly stressful season will last and wonder if it's going to be months or years and if we would be able to last! You did beautifully with patience for your father and your children.
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he wasn't intereste. (interested)
Comment Written 08-Oct-2022
reply by the author on 09-Oct-2022
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Thank you, Helen. I imagine you may we going through on of the seasons in your life with your parents and wondering how it will end. My children will probably face that too. Thank you for premoting my story with the member pump.
Beth
